alone...

It's not size that matters - it's what you do with it.

But in all seriousness. You always have the filmmaker line to go with. I have no doubt you will get through this. I've been in terrible spots myself. Still here and kicking. Relationships are strange. You will know when you find someone.

You could call up a friend or something. Hell, you could even post here like you did. Just goes to show how great of a communal family this is really.
 
Mattykins said:
You always have the filmmaker line to go with.
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Yes, to give you hope, this guy has been married to Cate Blanchett for 11 years, and he's just a screenwriter--

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you could always do what tom marshall does. post an ad on craigslist saying you are looking for adult actresses. when someone responds, have her meet you for an "audition". at then end of the..ahem...audition, tell her you haven't made a final decision for the part, but you were impressed enough that you will call her back for a second interview.
 
I got married two weeks ago (on the 19th of July)... Freaking awesome experience but when I met her I wasn't looking for anyone. I would say to just be mellow and not concentrate too hard on forcing things. The worst thing you can do is try to rush love or rush into marriage.

That being said if you want a kick ass love song the song we danced to at our wedding was Somebody by Depeche Mode:

I want somebody to share
Share the rest of my life
Share my innermost thoughts
Know my intimate details
Someone wholl stand by my side
And give me support
And in return
Shell get my support
She will listen to me
When I want to speak
About the world we live in
And life in general
Though my views may be wrong
They may even be perverted
Shell hear me out
And wont easily be converted
To my way of thinking
In fact shell often disagree
But at the end of it all
She will understand me
Aaaahhhhh....

I want somebody who cares
For me passionately
With every thought and
With every breath
Someone wholl help me see things
In a different light
All the things I detest
I will almost like
I dont want to be tied
To anyones strings
Im carefully trying to steer clear of
Those things
But when Im asleep
I want somebody
Who will put their arms around me
And kiss me tenderly
Though things like this
Make me sick
In a case like this
Ill get away with it
Aaaahhhhh....
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A picture from a guest while we wait for our photographer to get back to me
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Batutta said:
Yes, to give you hope, this guy has been married to Cate Blanchett for 11 years, and he's just a screenwriter--

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JUST a screenwriter? JUST a screenwriter? Why I oughta...cry. :cry:

You know...I almost just asked a girl on a date. The keyword there was "almost." ****...
 
This was my wedding song. Dance Me to the End of Love by Leonard Cohen (hey, the wife's Canadian).

Dance me to your beauty with a burning violin
Dance me through the panic 'til I'm gathered safely in
Lift me like an olive branch and be my homeward dove
Dance me to the end of love
Dance me to the end of love
Oh let me see your beauty when the witnesses are gone
Let me feel you moving like they do in Babylon
Show me slowly what I only know the limits of
Dance me to the end of love
Dance me to the end of love

Dance me to the wedding now, dance me on and on
Dance me very tenderly and dance me very long
We're both of us beneath our love, we're both of us above
Dance me to the end of love
Dance me to the end of love

Dance me to the children who are asking to be born
Dance me through the curtains that our kisses have outworn
Raise a tent of shelter now, though every thread is torn
Dance me to the end of love

Dance me to your beauty with a burning violin
Dance me through the panic till I'm gathered safely in
Touch me with your naked hand or touch me with your glove
Dance me to the end of love
Dance me to the end of love
Dance me to the end of love
 
ConspiracyPenguin said:
JUST a screenwriter? JUST a screenwriter? Why I oughta...cry. :cry:

You know...I almost just asked a girl on a date. The keyword there was "almost." poo poo...
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Dude, these are his only three credits--

# Gone (2007/III) (writer)
# Stories of Lost Souls (2006) (segment "Bangers")
... aka Historias de almas perdidas (Argentina: DVD title)

# Bangers (1999) (writer)

When they met, he had ZERO credits. Either they are soul mates destined to be together, or he's swingin' some pipe.
 
ConspiracyPenguin said:
I just want someone to hold hands with and laugh with. I just want someone to want me. But I have wasted so much poo pooing time not trying to fill that hole that now I am realizing I made a big mistake. This year is the year I am going to jump out of that damn window, and I just hope there is someone at the bottom to catch me - or at least cushion my fall.
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You had me at poo pooing.
 
Mark Harris said:
When I was in LA, Zak's girlfriend Jamie seemed to know an awful lot about some place called: "Roscoe's Clown House" or something like that. Anyway, I'm sure a couple of trips there will set you right up and make you feel a hundred times better.

Oh yeah and Tommy went on and on about the Rhino Cage. I guess at the Zoo. Anyway, he said that was great for curing the blues too.
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Spearmint Rhino
 
Brandon Rice said:
I want to be married and have a family... the closeness of a relationship like that cannot be replaced on a human level with anything... I am focusing on my career, but tis' tough sometimes, you know.
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Ah Brandon, I can feel you, we're in the same boat buddy. But ask God and He'll send you the right woman. You may even know who it is but still have to wait. Focus on your career and being the kind a man God would want to bring into a woman's life and you'll see it happen eventually. Just be you and you'll see. And keep your social skills up.
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You know...I almost just asked a girl on a date. The keyword there was "almost." poo poo...
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I wanted to ask a girl out. I didn't know what to say. I kissed her. Yea, that worked out. We never actually got together but we did go on a date. LOL.

-Nate
 
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Batutta said:
Dude, these are his only three credits--

# Gone (2007/III) (writer)
# Stories of Lost Souls (2006) (segment "Bangers")
... aka Historias de almas perdidas (Argentina: DVD title)

# Bangers (1999) (writer)

When they met, he had ZERO credits. Either they are soul mates destined to be together, or he's swingin' some pipe.
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:grin: I just thought you were saying that screenwriters in general are less attractive/likable than other people. :)

Nathyn said:
I wanted to ask a girl out. I didn't know what to say. I kissed her. Yea, that worked out. We never actually got together but we did go on a date. LOL.
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Hahaha. I wish that would work, but we've been friends for 11 years so I don't even know if there is a chance in hell of a date. Especially since once she said I was "like a brother" to her. ****!
 
Wow. I honestly don't know what to say besides that.

Also, I feel like a dumb ass staring at this MSN window thinking "Should I? Or shouldn't I?" then I reach the ultimate conclusion that doing it would make me an even bigger dumb ass because I didn't pick up the phone. I get so pissed when I answer my own questions and then don't do jack about it...
 
Brandon- I dont mean for this to sound harsh, but you have to find someone you are in love with more than you are in love with the idea of marriage and family. Seems to me that you maybe you want those things so much, that maybe your girlfriends are picking up on that and its scaring them off. Maybe. What do I know? Do less going after and let them come after you. :)
 
stupid advice on love as it was told to me in one form or another....

keep it simple. think of it this way, right now your girl is out there somewhere thinking the same sort of things you are.

and confidence... believe in yourself. chicks dig confidence, and not that fake sort of overcompensating act, but real confidence. be yourself.

funny how most everyone goes through this and yet can feel totally alone at the same time. ... i had this thought the other day that i'd be driving somewhere only to have to stop because suddenly there'd be this mass of people just standing there all wondering out loud about the same things, like as if the world just had enough or something...

all the best...
 
GageFX said:
Does anyone have any idea what Penguin is going on about?
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either he is trying to decide if he should make a reservation at jumbo's clown room or he is contemplating asking a girl out by instant message.
 
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