I have a stalker!! (and she aint hot)

Richard J. Johnson

Richard J. Johnson

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This woman at my job will not leave me alone. She sends me naked pictures of herself, she's always up on me talking sexual sh!t, and a host of other things. I can almost see it if she were some smoking hot bomb shell. But she isn't. VEEEEERRY far from it. I'm talking Blonde wig rotten teeth far. My dudes think it's hysterical.

I told her to cease with the pics even though they were so repulsive I showed my wife and we had a good long laugh. But now it's getting silly. I don't want to go to HR and go through that whole thing but if she does not check her self I will have to go the corporate route.

I tell her to chill and she does not listen and I really don't want to get ignorant a curse her the hell out because she could say anything. And I don't want my name, Her name and sex mentioned in the same sentence.

I guess there is question in here somewhere. I just needed to vent.:zombie_smiley:
 
I think it's already gotten out of hand. If you've asked her to stop, and she isn't, I'm PRETTY sure that's sexual harassment. I'm no lawyer, but if it were the other way around (dude sending chick pictures of him), he'd be out of there quick. And rightfully so. Stop it before it gets even further out of hand.
 
this is just prove that you still got it.

I had many fat stalkers, miss the attention sometimes but....wait does it mean I dont have it anymore :(
 
Richard J. Johnson said:
This woman at my job will not leave me alone. She sends me naked pictures of herself, she's always up on me talking sexual sh!t, and a host of other things. I can almost see it if she were some smoking hot bomb shell. But she isn't. VEEEEERRY far from it. I'm talking Blonde wig rotten teeth far. My dudes think it's hysterical.

I told her to cease with the pics even though they were so repulsive I showed my wife and we had a good long laugh. But now it's getting silly. I don't want to go to HR and go through that whole thing but if she does not check her self I will have to go the corporate route.

I tell her to chill and she does not listen and I really don't want to get ignorant a curse her the hell out because she could say anything. And I don't want my name, Her name and sex mentioned in the same sentence.

I guess there is question in here somewhere. I just needed to vent.:zombie_smiley:
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I say make duplicates of those pictures and post them all over your workplace.
 
Everts said:
this is just prove that you still got it.

I had many fat stalkers, miss the attention sometimes but....wait does it mean I dont have it anymore :(
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LMAO!! Why couldn't she look like Sanaa Lathan?

I need to do something about it as Hawk said. I hate to be a lame but she's so nasty, I just can't have my name associated with it. I know almost everyone in this building and the next thing you know I'm bumping uglies with Grimus. Eff that.
 
and make sure Terry L can do a caption this !

Sanaa Lathan...., that would be one very hot stalker.

Having a stalker is not good period.

I just got rude when it started to anoy me , and sometimes I would show a friend of theirs some more attention than I normally would not flirting .
 
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Batutta said:
I say make duplicates of those pictures and post them all over your workplace.
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Man they are so disgusting my wife was speechless. She kept telling me to send them to hotghettomess.com. I just could not do that. crazy part is she works 3 feet away. I swear 1 minute ago she licked her lips at me.:zombie_smiley:
 
I had a stalker once but at least she had a sense of humor. She kept sending sh*t to my work. One day I come in and there was a package for me. It was a book titled "Everything Men Know About Women." I opened it up and there was nothing but blank pages.
 
There is something else... I don't know how your corporate honchos may or may not work... but if she's sending you this stuff at work, and you're viewing it at work, and it's been going on for awhile and you're not doing anything about it... some IT snoop may stumble across it, or someone may oversee you looking at it and complain to corporate who may snoop into what you're looking at...

All to say you're now at risk of getting in trouble for looking at inappropriate stuff at work, and unless you have a email/paper trail of your telling her to knock it off as opposed to telling her verbally to prove it's harassment, you may have a hard time proving otherwise if someone else stumbles upon it.

Plus, at this point, your psycho coworker could also start making stuff up and go HR herself and complain about you if she finally gets the idea you're not into her. Hey, if she's crazy enough to stalk and harass you and send you this nastiness... you need to get to HR yesterday and deal with this.
 
Richard J. Johnson said:
I need to do something about it as Hawk said. I hate to be a lame but she's so nasty, I just can't have my name associated with it. I know almost everyone in this building and the next thing you know I'm bumping uglies with Grimus. Eff that.
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Yeah, I know ... if it were college, it would be a completely different story! Oh the things you could do to mess with her. But unfortunately the job world doesn't work that way.
 
Go to corporate route?

You need to go to HR. Some places have sexual harassment hotlines (or general harassment/workplace mistreatment lines. I don't know how big your firm is. But go to HR. Sort it out there. The longer you wait, the worse it's going to get.
 
Rick Meyer said:
I had a stalker once but at least she had a sense of humor. She kept sending sh*t to my work. One day I come in and there was a package for me. It was a book titled "Everything Men Know About Women." I opened it up and there was nothing but blank pages.
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That really must have F**** you up !
 
I just had a long talk with her crazy ass. She said she would chill and did not seem upset about it. She goes on and on with this sob story about her husband and how he treats her...blah blah. So we'll see. But I did let my boss know, who's also one of my best friends know about and he's gonna take over if she sends me one more gotdam picture of her saggy breasts. He was laughing his ass off but he knows how serious it is.
 
Everts said:
Sanaa Lathan...., that would be one very hot stalker.

Having a stalker is not good period.
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Sanaa Lathan stalking me? The emotions would be so mixed: Stop following me! But, uh, not yet...okay now. Uh, wow, she's not following me anymore...bummer. Oh wait, she's stalking me again...what! I told her to stop! I'm calling the cops...well maybe later.

Mike Harvey said:
There is something else... I don't know how your corporate honchos may or may not work... but if she's sending you this stuff at work, and you're viewing it at work, and it's been going on for awhile and you're not doing anything about it... some IT snoop may stumble across it, or someone may oversee you looking at it and complain to corporate who may snoop into what you're looking at...

All to say you're now at risk of getting in trouble for looking at inappropriate stuff at work, and unless you have a email/paper trail of your telling her to knock it off as opposed to telling her verbally to prove it's harassment, you may have a hard time proving otherwise if someone else stumbles upon it.

Plus, at this point, your psycho coworker could also start making stuff up and go HR herself and complain about you if she finally gets the idea you're not into her. Hey, if she's crazy enough to stalk and harass you and send you this nastiness... you need to get to HR yesterday and deal with this.
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Yep, listen to Mike, he right on the money.

-Nate
 
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