OK just to summarize the problem.
When recording to prores 444, the full range is clipped and only limited range is shown in post. Therefore, the tip of the highlights are clipped, and no matter what levels you select on resolve, or if you try lowering the gain, no chance to recover those.
This is not F35 fault, nor F3, it seems to be prores problem.
Before this, with prores HQ, while a limited range codec, you could select data levels in resolve, and be able to access those clipped highlights. But with prores 4444 that doesn't seem to work.
ALexa encodes their logC as limited range when recording to prores, just to avoid this. But Slog is a full range codec, and whites reach 104IRE.
This is the reason I always record to DNxHD with the Hyperdeck. But if Prores 444 is not working the only other chance would be Cineform since DNxHD doesn't do 444.