basspig
Veteran
Waisting time is waisting money. Don't travel unless getting paid to do it and don't drive out to give bids that could have been shot down over the phone.
In the case of that lady with the 'sweet sixteen' party, my wife was friendly with her (they both belong to the same social organization) and also the woman was Filipino, so my wife being sort of the go-between, it was a situation better handled in person. The problem arose when, based on an earlier impromptu conversation at a retail location, the woman asked how much I would charge to do a birthday party. I assumed a couple of hours at the time and gave her a ballpark off the top of my head. Now, it turns out, she wanted something MUCH more elaborate. Apparently this "18 roses" festival thing is a very big rite of passage in the Filipino tradition, and the woman is spending quite a bit of money on this event.
Normally, with a corporate type client, I CAN pretty much sum things up on a phonecall, but with this, no. Also with wedding clients, they insist on an in-person meeting, which I use to show them examples of how their DVD might look, as well as contract signing, etc., if they agree to the price and like what I have shown them.
Given that it is often months between finding a prospect, I tend to go all out to make a good impression on them. If I had work every day, that would be a different story, I suppose.