Getting Married

niknak

niknak

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Getting married soon guys. Is it all it's cracked up to be.
What are the Pro's and Con's.
Is it hell or bliss.

Discuss.:dankk2:
 
well, i can't tell you the pro's and con's b/c im not even married! better yet, im single! but im sure you will have a exciting marriage. good luck and congrats! :)
 
It's whatever you two make it. Your attitudes and level of patience will determine much of your happiness.

Congrats! :thumbsup:
 
Terry_Lasater said:
It's whatever you two make it. Your attitudes and level of patience will determine much of your happiness.

Congrats! :thumbsup:
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I second that. It's all about who you marry. Marriage is very different for lots of people but I highly suggest it if you're ready.
 
Getting married...tired of sex, huh?:Drogar-BigGrin(DBG) j/k.

Congratulations! I'm sure it will be great.
 
"People are about as happy as they make up their mind to be."

Abraham Lincoln

"Ab's about as happy as I decide for him to be."

Mary Todd Lincoln

Pick a good woman. It makes up for a lot.
 
it is not the kind of agreement you want to enter into with dobuts. you both should be a 100% convinced.. or else it is not really worth it. i have not been divoriced but it sucks for most of the peeps i know who have.
 
The question was said with tongue firmly in cheek, I love the woman (the one sitting in front of me in my avatar). :)
 
But is it me or is there a reason thier is an actual job description for wedding planners. ITS A KNIGHTMARE organising all this stuff. Flowers, location, invitations the list goes on.
 
nicholasraeburn said:
The question was said with tongue firmly in cheek, I love the woman (the one sitting in front of me in my avatar). :)
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Now the picture in your avatar are you choking her out ?:)
 
I've been divorced. It was awful. It's worse than getting a tooth pulled without being numb. Seriously.

The "right" woman would be awesome. They're worth their weight in gold (or diamonds). Here's the catch though, 90% of them disguise themselves as "right women" material. Secretly they're blood sucking banshees. I guess the same could be said for guys from a good woman's perspective.

If you have any, and I mean any doubts at all, don't do it. I've cancelled weddings when they had everything planned, invitations sent, dress tailored etc. If it doesn't feel right, don't do it because it's a massive decision that will change every part of your life. Don't go along with something because you feel obligated to some social ceremony, or money spent.

Marriage is like a chemical reaction. If two elements come together that react well with eachother you can get something great and strong. If not, you'll see an explosion.
 
I have no doubts just enquiring what married lifes like, been engaged for 2 years and seing each other for 8 so it feels like i'm practically married already.:)
 
Congratulations mate

Marriage is what you make it - like the rest of life, whatever you focus on, on an ongoing basis, will grow - SO MAKE IT A HABIT TO FOCUS ON GOOD STUFF.

Good luck mate

Steve
 
One word : PRENUP

And Congratulations. Ban the polka, the chicken dance, and any 70's love songs from the reception. :beer:




Cheers.
 
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coffee said:
don't do it

but if you do, welcome to the club
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LOL!

Yeah, just be sure that you're fully ready to having a nagging creature tethered to you for the rest of your human existence. :grin:
 
DC said:
LOL!

Yeah, just be sure that you're fully ready to having a nagging creature tethered to you for the rest of your human existence. :grin:
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lol... and you are a noob at it! :thumbsup:

has it even been a year?
 
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