You can't lock anything before you go into Live View mode... Anything you've done, for a split second, even if you lock it before hand, is erased prior to entering.
I just uploaded a video that demonstrates adjusting aperture manually with a D (AF lens), the 50mm f1.4D.
http://www.vimeo.com/1715441
BTW, Kholi thanks for writing all you have about getting more out of the D90. I've learned a lot from your posts.