Need some advice....

ExtremeSleuth

ExtremeSleuth

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There is this very beautiful girl in my Music As A World Phenomenon class. I mean, she's BEAUTIFUL. I like her. I'd like to ask her out, but a girl that good looking is bound to have a boyfriend. What should I do? Should I ask, and get the answer I know is coming... and also take the chance that she doesn't, and at the same time if she doesn't have a boyfriend take the chance that I'll get turned down, or should I just not say anything?? I get really nervous and shy and such when it comes to asking someone out, why? I don't know, it's just how I am. I really don't know what to do... Do you guys have any advice? I trust you's guys' judgement...
 
Dude, just ask her.

My main advice is get to know her first, because do you want to date someone you dont know? So dont become to close of friends with her, because then she might not want to "ruin the relationship of friends" but get to know her, and show her some of your comical side, girls like a good sense of humor first remember :P and then ask her out, dont want to regret not asking later on.

And some hot girls, very few , dont know how beautiful they are, so maybe shes like that, and also, if you think shes that beautiful, maybe every other guy does as well, and is also afraid to approach her. so the odds are the same that she doesnt have a boyfriend.

First, id say is follow her home, and check her window every few hours to see if she has a boyfriend in her room or if she ever meets with one. Then if she doesnt, follow her everywhere to see what she likes, and hide in hampers in her house if you can get in undetected, so you can hear her talk about what she likes, then youll know what to get as a gift....

Just kidding, or am I?!?!?! AHAHHA, anyways, how old are you and her?

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saw you are 20 from your profile, thats good this isnt a high school thing. High school girls are always "taken" with their fake relationships with the 'gangstas' about town. Anyways, how old is she?
 
You'll never know unless you ask. Wait too long and someone else will beat you to the punch. You'd be surprised how often a beautiful girl doesn't get asked out because her beauty intimidates guys into not asking her out because, "surely she must have a boyfriend."
 
My advice: be slightly cocky, but mainly funny and don't be needy and you'll be fine. Think of it as an acting gig. Make her want to chase you.
 
Didnt the reaper already get the help from Peter when he wanted to date the pet store chick, he gave pretty good advice.
 
cynic's got the right idea. The first step is to talk to her. Compliment something she's working on in class or something, see if you can get a conversation going. Try this a few times and see her response. If she doesn't shoot you down immidietly, tell her you were going get coffee/food/books/etc and wanted to now if she's like to join you.

That's what I'd do
 
thanks for the advice. i'm getting to know her some from class, we talk a little before class about random stuff, i've shown her a couple of magic tricks, told a few jokes and such... i'm an outgoing guy and all, but when it comes to asking someone out its the toughest thing for me. after that part i'd be fine and my usual self again, its the asking part that's the hardest for me.

i know it sounds like high school drama and all, but i just need some advice, cause my closest friends have no freakin' clue what the hell they're talking about.. so i figured i'd ask the people who've had more experience and know more than my close friends do. thanks again for the advice...


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Blaine said:
You could always show her your scythe...:Drogar-BigGrin(DBG)
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I don't know, it may be too much for her ;)
 
Still working on the book, but it will definitely help to think of her not as "beautiful on the outside", but ugly on the inside.

Trust me, if her guts were hanging out, no one would ask her out on a date.

If she's not already dating, it might be because her guts are actually hanging out - ewww, gross! - or perhaps, she is just not as hot as you think. Conversely, she might have a boyfriend, but I doubt it.

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DUDE, just be her friend......first.........then hit it later... kidding man. :evil:

Like cynic said, get to know the lady first......and be yourself! If she no likey you, then move on and wait to see if Jessica Alba ask you.
 
I think getting to know her as your friend first is really important... it seems as if you two have "hit it off" by what you've said. If you feel the vibe going and sense she enjoys your company. Go for it. If you sense the opposite... I'd think twice.
 
you really should stalk her a bit though, peer through her window, because you never know, she could be like Dwayne Bradley. Pre-Op
 
I'm totally feeling the beginnings of a DVXUser horror short here. Stalking, sexy young women and guts.

Hit that.

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Cynic821 said:
you really should stalk her a bit though, peer through her window, because you never know, she could be like Dwayne Bradley. Pre-Op
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that's just wrong... you're going to give me nightmares now, thanks a lot.
 
LOL. Belial pwns you all!! AHAHAHA.

No, just kidding about stalking her, but she may have a little Belial of her own, you never know!

Dude, i bet the actor who played Duane Bradly had to lose a bet or something on the set , because the scene of him:

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streaking naked down the street was soOOOOOO unneccessary.

Anyone remember?
 
Cynic821 said:
First, id say is follow her home, and check her window every few hours to see if she has a boyfriend in her room or if she ever meets with one. Then if she doesnt, follow her everywhere to see what she likes, and hide in hampers in her house if you can get in undetected, so you can hear her talk about what she likes, then youll know what to get as a gift....
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:grin:
Reminds me of "A Funny Thing Happened at the Quick Mart", a hilarious short from 2004.
 
Man, I thought the same thing about Jane when I saw her in photo class, this is what I did:

Me: "Man, long class huh? I'm pretty hungry"
Jane: "Yeah, me too."
Me: "Ya know what sounds good? Sushi."
Jane: "Yuck, I've never tried it."
Me: "Seriously? Well then I'm making you try it tonight! Let's go."

...and the rest is history.
 
TC said:
Man, I thought the same thing about Jane when I saw her in photo class, this is what I did:

Me: "Man, long class huh? I'm pretty hungry"
Jane: "Yeah, me too."
Me: "Ya know what sounds good? Sushi."
Jane: "Yuck, I've never tried it."
Me: "Seriously? Well then I'm making you try it tonight! Let's go."

...and the rest is history.
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cool, i was going to ask her to go to a movie though...
 
I wouldn't suggest a movie- how are you supposed to get to know her if your sitting in silence?

Plus the movie would be ruined, because you'd be thinking about everything else that's going on.
 
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