Hi all!
I'm in a little situation here and I really need some advice from you guys who's been in the game for while. Sorry about the long post, I hope you are up for some reading.
This summer I finished a TV and Media education and now I'm in the works of starting my own production company. I was
approached by a somewhat local celebrity ( here in south sweden
) who wants to cut a deal with me.
We can call him mr B and I've worked with this guy before with no issues. He is now working fulltime as a showhost on television ( so he has massive connections ) but his plan is to start his own production company and he wants me to join him, as I have all the necessary gear, and he hasn't. ( Cameras, lighting, grip )
He offered me my own workspace in his office, but no pay, at least in the beginning. He has agreed that I can use the workspace for my own private business as well, as he recognize the fact that money makes the world go around. I need food on the table as everybody else. So far so good.
But right now I'm used to carry out my business from home, in my work room. I don't feel comfortable moving in to his office for more reasons then the obvious bellow. It's freedom thing, I want no strings attached to my company.
I've explained this to him, and I gently turned down his offer of moving in ( but of course, still continue all the work together ). However, according to him, this is not an option. Either I move in and give 100% or he will find someone else to do it.
So last Friday we brought this matter up again and I asked him exactly why he wants me there, and he has been really diffuse with his answers. In fact he once said with his own words " I cant really say why .. ". But he tried to explain that he wants a more intimate workrelationship with me. How we are supposed to work more closely together when he is working all day long is still a mystery to me.
He said that he can get more people to move in if there's already a cameraguy there ( me ). He sometimes pulls the "you-should-be-thankfull-you-get-to-work-with-me" card. Sometime he tells me that it would be good for me to have a dedicated office, you can't really do your business at home and so on. But I don't think his intentions are that noble.
Here's my take on why he really wants me to be there. I learned a couple a weeks ago that he has brought in an intern. Since mr B isn't there to look after him, he probably needs someone to do the job, since there is no one else in the building. I don't know the rules for internship here in Sweden, but I can't imagine a 17 year old intern to be left alone all day to do various job. There needs to be some adult supervision, at least on paper.
So there it is. I have a very unsettling feeling about all of this. I don't like it at all. If he would just ask me for a favour to watch this intern for him, it would be a totally different thing. But now I think in his way of acting he is clearly showing what he thinks of me.
It sure would be big opportunity to suck it all up, move in and continue to work with him, and give my career a big forward push. But is it worth the price? What happens when money gets involved? What would you guys do? Any help is very much appriciated!
I'm in a little situation here and I really need some advice from you guys who's been in the game for while. Sorry about the long post, I hope you are up for some reading.
This summer I finished a TV and Media education and now I'm in the works of starting my own production company. I was
approached by a somewhat local celebrity ( here in south sweden
We can call him mr B and I've worked with this guy before with no issues. He is now working fulltime as a showhost on television ( so he has massive connections ) but his plan is to start his own production company and he wants me to join him, as I have all the necessary gear, and he hasn't. ( Cameras, lighting, grip )
He offered me my own workspace in his office, but no pay, at least in the beginning. He has agreed that I can use the workspace for my own private business as well, as he recognize the fact that money makes the world go around. I need food on the table as everybody else. So far so good.
But right now I'm used to carry out my business from home, in my work room. I don't feel comfortable moving in to his office for more reasons then the obvious bellow. It's freedom thing, I want no strings attached to my company.
I've explained this to him, and I gently turned down his offer of moving in ( but of course, still continue all the work together ). However, according to him, this is not an option. Either I move in and give 100% or he will find someone else to do it.
So last Friday we brought this matter up again and I asked him exactly why he wants me there, and he has been really diffuse with his answers. In fact he once said with his own words " I cant really say why .. ". But he tried to explain that he wants a more intimate workrelationship with me. How we are supposed to work more closely together when he is working all day long is still a mystery to me.
He said that he can get more people to move in if there's already a cameraguy there ( me ). He sometimes pulls the "you-should-be-thankfull-you-get-to-work-with-me" card. Sometime he tells me that it would be good for me to have a dedicated office, you can't really do your business at home and so on. But I don't think his intentions are that noble.
Here's my take on why he really wants me to be there. I learned a couple a weeks ago that he has brought in an intern. Since mr B isn't there to look after him, he probably needs someone to do the job, since there is no one else in the building. I don't know the rules for internship here in Sweden, but I can't imagine a 17 year old intern to be left alone all day to do various job. There needs to be some adult supervision, at least on paper.
So there it is. I have a very unsettling feeling about all of this. I don't like it at all. If he would just ask me for a favour to watch this intern for him, it would be a totally different thing. But now I think in his way of acting he is clearly showing what he thinks of me.
It sure would be big opportunity to suck it all up, move in and continue to work with him, and give my career a big forward push. But is it worth the price? What happens when money gets involved? What would you guys do? Any help is very much appriciated!