Things might be a little different with the VR lens because it's an internal focusing lens, and I suspect that it's optically increasing it's focal-length to achieve greater magnification while keeping a greater distance from your subject than the older non-internal focus lenses. I think this is how it's achieving 1:1 magnification at a greater distance than the older non-internal focus lenses.
What's meant with internal focusing? So the VR would be the best bet on the remaining 105mm lenses if the 200mm is too much.