I hope this goes well for you! I've had friends get options similarly that then expired with little fanfare, so I hope this pulls through with actual $$. Post back when it does!
Right, your friend experienced what normally happens. This will be my third option, I know how these things usually go (not so good). However, this is the first one with a signatory and real solid producer. They have the means and a great track-record. My fingers are crossed.