I just quit my job....

I've quit 3 jobs in my life.

The first was a web design company. I'd gotten kicked out of the first university I went to (long story, terrible) and decided to just go into working. I found a job paying decently as a web designer, but the boss was a dick and was constantly looking over my shoulder. I hated it. So I quit and decided to go back to college. Got a degree in cinema production. Thanks to that jerk for giving me the motivation to give school a 2nd chance.

The second one was Cisco. Paid bank, working help center, free food and snacks all day long, all in-house stuff so no irate customers from the field. Not a bad setup. But A) I didn't want to do it and B) drug testing. No way. I'm not gonna get into drug use here, but I am absolutely not okay with any company going through my urine to see what I do in my free time. That's a privacy thing. Wound up getting a job back at the place I was working before (got laid off temporarily) a week later, making more money.

My first job after I graduated college w/ my degree was as an intern at a nonprofit in San Francisco. I was doing video production, and the guy who hired me was their media consultant, handling their distribution. He had also started his own media distribution company (shooting their own content) and invited me to come on board there as well. But he was an ass and treated me like crap, kept changing the terms of our "contract" while we were waiting for funding so that I would be paid. So I told him to stuff it and went back to my nonprofit where he was still media consultant.

Turned out he was talking smack about me to the Marketing VP (the boss of me and him) trying to get me fired, so that the entire media department would be contracted out to his new company. Well, right around that time they d umped 2 month's work on me and I almost freaked out. This hot Japanese girl there (who had graduated from NYU with a film degree herself some years ago) gave me some crucial advice about organisation and I managed to turn around that work in 2 weeks. The Marketing VP decided to keep me and the media consultant left with his business. The girl later approached me about a promo video (i had a week) before the annual dinner, and she and I turned it around, knocked everyone's socks off, and they offered me a contract, bumped up my pay, and made me director of the whole department. Also, I asked the girl out and we just celebrated our first year together :)

Now I get to set my own hours, and have networked with many other nonprofits, who I do videos for. We've just launched our own production company and working on building enough clients that we can just start working from home. It will probably take us another year or two, but there you go.

Each time I've quit a company I've had to tighten my belt and just 'get by' for a little while, but every time it's worked out for the better. Quitting a job drove me back to college, led me to a great woman and my own company. But each time it required jumping into the unknown, taking a big risk and making a sacrifice. But if you're not happy, it's absolutely worth it to take that chance. Life is way too short to let yourself stagnate and if you do, you'll find time goes by so fast that you'll wonder what happened to yourself.
 
I have no savings. 2 daughters, one in high school and one in Jr. high. No 401k, forgot to activate it (dumb ass). So I'm basically living on what I'm making now which has the potential to make much more than I was making at that job.
 
Mark Harris said:
Jobs are for suckers. I haven't had one in 6 years. Never look back.

How do you pay your rent? Eat? You got me curious.

And for the 20 year old. I'm 23. You can do whatever the hell you want to do. Don't settle.
 
DVX-Ben said:
How do you pay your rent? Eat? You got me curious.

And for the 20 year old. I'm 23. You can do whatever the hell you want to do. Don't settle.

Well, that was misspoken I guess.

I have my own software consultancy. I am self-employed. But I set my own hours, my own rates, and I work when I want.

And I star in the odd porno when times are tight...
 
It's actually pretty tough because you get screwed on taxes and I have to carry my own health insurance, and retirement account/etc. But the freedom is worth it all...
 
Well here we go...

I started posting here probably, really close to one year ago. I have been shooting video on the side for approximately 15 years. VHS, S-VHS, Hi-8, Weddings, Funerals, Birthdays, Corporate, Non-profit.

I never invested in anything, I wanted all things video to leave me alone. Crashing PC's...48 hour renders. What a pain. But folks kept on asking me to do stuff. So last year...one January Wednesday...my lunch hour rolled around in my cubicle and I walked out. I took the photos of my one year old son off the my fabricky little walls and walked out never to return.

My family backed me in following my destiny. We took out a 25K loan. 2 DVX's a DuoCore G5 and assorted other expenses later. Here we are. Struggling...for we live and compete in good ole Los Angeles, CA.

BUT...we've made incredible progress. Last year I took the time to put together a very respectable reel...I'm proud of our work. This year has been great and word is spreading.

I just got back from the bank and deposited a check for $850...second payment on a Wedding we're shooting tomorrow.

I'm off to the wedding rehearsal. I'm living the dream.

www.planetzaya.com
 
tommyinla said:
PS. I'm scared s**tless :)

If you weren't scared, I'd question your judgement.

I got laid off and decided to go for my dream.
10 years later, I have 34 employees working for me, earning 20x.

The difference is, everyone is scared. Successful people I've met, recognize they are scared, but still go for it...:thumbup:
 
You will succeed. 1) You are only 20 2) You are scared - that's good, it means you are sane 3) You are willing to take risks to pursue your dreams.

It'll happen.

Good luck!
 
Dangitskang said:
Thanks guys, your stories really cheered me up.

Tommy - Yes...I still do live at home because its cheaper that way. Although I do give my parents rent. I don't have to but I sort of force them to take it...In terms of experience with films...I have no professional experience. I did make a couple shorts a while ago before I started working but that was before I found this site. I look back at it now and it hurts me so much to watch it. I sort of go into denial mode and that saying where "Even the ugliest babies are beautiful in their parents eyes"...Doesn't apply here. No composition, my camera man who was obviously inexperienced loved that lil zoom button, and so forth.

It's a good thing you live with your parents. Gives you a little more peace of mind. You don't have to worry about getting kicked out of an apartment if you can't pay the rent... :)

Of course, parents usually want you to either a) have a job or b) go to shcool. That's the way my parents were when I was still living at home.

spunknoid said:
If you weren't scared, I'd question your judgement.

I got laid off and decided to go for my dream.
10 years later, I have 34 employees working for me, earning 20x.

The difference is, everyone is scared. Successful people I've met, recognize they are scared, but still go for it...

That's really good advice. I guess you can either look at is as fear or as something to make you get off your butt and do something you truly want to do with your life.

Life truly is too short to waste it doing something you hate. It's funny, but when I get back from my lunch break, I really want to time to fly by so that 6pm comes and I can leave. But if you think about it, that's really sad. You have 4 hours of your life which you just can't get back and you're hoping it goes by fast so that you can go home. I don't know, but I'd much rather spend those hours doing something that I'd love to be doing. Makes sense, doesn't it?
 
The worst is waking up every morning dreading going to work even if there is not a thing to do there. Some times I would go a month or two with nothing to do but research new things and watch a ton of reels. I even felt guilty sitting there like that but when work came, it came down hard and fast with little time to finish. Definitely made up for idle time but it was still unrewarding. I can't even count the amount of times they would come back from a big meeting and say everyone was wowed by the work, we have to go for a big dinner out and then never mention it again. The old "dangle the carrot" routine.
 
This is a great thread - good luck to you 20yo dude.

I'm kind of in one of those 'transitional' periods in my life. I was working at Blockbuster a couple years ago earning not much at all, just dreaming of becoming a screenwriter. So I moved back to my hometown which I really didn't want to do, to earn some decent money and I now own a HVX (first camera for me!) and am about 6 months away from coming over to the US or Canada to bug you guys and get closer to what I'd like to do for a living.

I'm 25 now and the years seem to be slipping away quicker all the time so I'm just going to throw caution to the wind.

Ian
 
tommyinla said:
It's a good thing you live with your parents. Gives you a little more peace of mind. You don't have to worry about getting kicked out of an apartment if you can't pay the rent... :)

Or, that could be the worst thing, depending on what motivates you. The threat of imminent homelessness might inspire amazing efforts and creativity and hard work, whereas having no sword of Damocles might not push you over that threshhold of success...

(diff'rent strokes, as it were...) :thumbsup:
 
very true Barry. I lived at home through college all the way up to my senior year (this year) and before I moved out there would be so many times where I would sit around completely complacent doing nothing, but as soon as I moved out and had to start paying rent I had all sorts of motivation to do things money and non-money related
 
my greatest fear about quitting is that i'll end up at some street corner carrying my dvx and holding up a sign that reads, "will videotape for food".
 
ugafan said:
my greatest fear about quitting is that i'll end up at some street corner carrying my dvx and holding up a sign that reads, "will videotape for food".

Hmmm, that doesn't sound that bad to me. Actually sounds like a great concept for a reality show....

DDP
 
OK, I'm resurrecting this thread because, today, I put in my 2 weeks notice... I've finally decided I need to quit my job and really focus on my acting / filmmaking career. It was a really tough choice since I'm making almost $30 / hr, but if you have that dream, you MUST pursue it... :beer:
 
Wow Tommy, good for you man... I'm lucky...

I get to have my day job, be my dream... working for a production company.
 
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