Jim Brennan
VHS Member Old Skool
I was going to post this in the Directors forum, because that's where the conversation came from, but I think it applies to all of the crafts we pursue.
I was having a discussion this AM with someone who knows me well, and has been on many sets with me, as well as being involved in other phases of productions.
We were discussing another person's involvement in an upcoming project and she told me that directing came "very naturally" to me, and that I was "talented"
I wanted to scream, and explained that I was appreciative of the comment, and that I was glad that it all looked good coming out, but it was an extremely difficult thing for me to do. I work very hard at it, and am very nervous actually doing it.
I know that this happens to people all the time. Athletes, actors, musicians. People see the result and figure it must come easily. They must be talented, because if anyone could do it (to a certain extent anyway), with hard work and dedication, that would take away their excuses.
Don't get me wrong, I know that some people have more of a knack, or pre-disposition for something. But that is just the grain of sand that the pearl grows around. Telling people they are talented diminishes so much of the hard work they put into something. I know that most people mean it as a compliment, but I hate it.
Sorry. End of rant.
I was having a discussion this AM with someone who knows me well, and has been on many sets with me, as well as being involved in other phases of productions.
We were discussing another person's involvement in an upcoming project and she told me that directing came "very naturally" to me, and that I was "talented"
I wanted to scream, and explained that I was appreciative of the comment, and that I was glad that it all looked good coming out, but it was an extremely difficult thing for me to do. I work very hard at it, and am very nervous actually doing it.
I know that this happens to people all the time. Athletes, actors, musicians. People see the result and figure it must come easily. They must be talented, because if anyone could do it (to a certain extent anyway), with hard work and dedication, that would take away their excuses.
Don't get me wrong, I know that some people have more of a knack, or pre-disposition for something. But that is just the grain of sand that the pearl grows around. Telling people they are talented diminishes so much of the hard work they put into something. I know that most people mean it as a compliment, but I hate it.
Sorry. End of rant.