Oh I have no doubt that it sounds harsh. But when the people you rely on continually fail to uphold their obligations to a project, you will ALWAYS get more done by cutting the cord and moving on. Even if it means hiring someone less talented, or doing it yourself (god forbid, I know everyone on this forum is SO AGAINST the idea of doing any job without years of experience and/or film school training)
Let me ask you this, who has a better idea of how your characters should dress, the costume designer, or the writer/producer/director? I have been on ALOT of indie film projects where strangely enough, all the characters were dressed in a fashion very similar to how the costume designer dressed herself. I'm not saying this is always the case, but if you are passionate about your project, and truly believe in what you're doing, you have an OBLIGATION to take things into your own hands when they start going awry.
But let me know how sitting around waiting on other people works out for you.
Let me ask you this, who has a better idea of how your characters should dress, the costume designer, or the writer/producer/director? I have been on ALOT of indie film projects where strangely enough, all the characters were dressed in a fashion very similar to how the costume designer dressed herself. I'm not saying this is always the case, but if you are passionate about your project, and truly believe in what you're doing, you have an OBLIGATION to take things into your own hands when they start going awry.
But let me know how sitting around waiting on other people works out for you.