Honestly... I've got NO idea what you are talking about.
You mean all music videos have a bright clear look?
Color Grading is an art to itself. There is a wonderful section on it in the manuals. DO read it. Ok?
I suggest using your 3way and crush blacks and push whites. Slide the mids around a bit until you get something you like. Then adjust hues with maybe the straight CC.
I think you mean over-saturation. But I think the trends in music vids here are to desaturate colours, turn up contrast, and, above all, maintain realistic skin tones.