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well i have a problem there is this girl that i love that dosent know i feel this way....i want to tell her but i just dont know how......there is also another problem she is moving across the flippin country in 20 days...Should i tell her how feel? and if so how should i tell her?
please help me ............... please help me
 
well first you dial the phone, then speak. that was where my post ended orginally..

"i know you are moving, but before you go I just need to let you know that you make my life better" <if this is how you feel> "I know there is no future for us because you are moving, but I just wanted you to know what you mean to me..." blah blah blah dont listen to anyone... just say how you feel, whatever embarrassment you think there may be from telling her, regreting not saying something will be worse...
 
haha. 18? Anyways, yeah definitly go with Sink's advice, wether or not anything will change, you will feel much much better for telling her your true feelings instead of keeping them in and letting her leave you unknowing of your true feelings. Never be embarrassed to express your true feelings to someone you care about. Good luck, hope everything turns out ok for you iamfat.
 
If she's moving then my suggestion is to forget this one and go for someone more available. You can tell her how you feel but highly doubt that will make her stay, since I'm guessing she's moving because of the family.

Say what you want to say to her and don't be nervous because think about it, she's moving anyway!

Be strong...

Peace
 
It's going to hurt either way. You definitely need to be prepared for that. IT WILL HURT WHETHER YOU TELL HER OR NOT.

I do not envy you right now.

That's quite a first post.
 
yes, tell her how you feel...either way though, it's going to suck. She's going to
A.) love you back and then you'll be apart - sucks
B.) not love you back - sucks
 
One of the positive things about love is that you can fall in love more than once. You obviously don't have a lot of time or seriousness invested in this one. Don't get discouraged, there'll be others.

I really want to believe in a "one true love" type thing. I also want a real lightsaber.
 
Honestly like some mentioned, the worst thing you could do is not say anything. What's the worst that could happen... She screams at you and tell you F$@% Off?

Oh well, atleast you'll have closure... but, what if she feels for you some sort of way, you will never know until you make that move and talk. Keep in mind moving out the country don't mean Jack now adays with the internet, you'll keep in touch without a doubt. Because you never know, she might come back one day... but in the meantime buddy, talk to as many girls as you can to keep this girl off your mind once she's gone.

Anybody who ever had their heart broken knows, nothing's worst than not having another girl or 2 to fall back on. Never throw away that little black book, never!

You now have 19 days to go, the more you think about it the harder it will be.. DO THE DAMN THING!
 
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I realize this is an off topic forum but....first post in dvxuser and you ask a question about love.......and it's not love of your dvx?
 
capitalP said:
Anybody who ever had their heart broken knows, nothing's worst than not having another girl or 2 to fall back on. Never throw away that little black book, never!
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Damn P, that's deep. :)
 
Did this guy just randomly select a forum to ask this question on?

If you're for real (doubt it) then just make a movie for her. Use your medium of choice to express yourself. Writers use a pen, filmmakers use a camera, and monkeys use feces.
 
Just do what I do... Go to her house:love4: , grab her:kali: , throw her in the trunk of your car :nads: and get a lot of duct tape and formaldehyde... :furious3:

Who says love can't last forever?

-Jeremy
 
*pulls up article on yahoo news*

"A young male teenager brutally raped and killed a girl to 'perserve' her, the corpse bride becomes real."
 
iamfat said:
well i have a problem there is this girl that i love that dosent know i feel this way....i want to tell her but i just dont know how......there is also another problem she is moving across the flippin country in 20 days...Should i tell her how feel? and if so how should i tell her?
please help me ............... please help me
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You say she has no idea how you feel. Chances are she does. And if she does and hasn't reciprocated or spilled her love and guts to you, I'd say don't tell her. It'll just open up a can of worms. It'll only lead to an awkward and bizarre silence for her. In fact, she might even resent you for springing this on her. Or, she will call you, "sweet" and tell you that you are a "really nice guy" but that shes going to move anyway.

If she loved you back, the way you want her to, you'd know it by now. Since she probably doesn't, don't touch that pandoras box.

Of course, I could say that if you've NEVER had your heart ripped out before and stommped on the ground and busted into a million tiny little pieces, why not join the rest of us sorry saps who have, tell her, and learn from the experience.

Rick
 
Hey, if she doesn't feel the same way... she's moving. You never have to see her again. You really don't have anything to lose.
 
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