Divorce SUCKS

[Beat Takeshi]

For 8 years we had an arrangement...everything down the middle. Now all of a sudden shes trying to take it all including the kids....Life sucks right now.
But she wont get precious, no, not precious. Precious told me she was trixy. But we didnt listen now did we.

 

[Elvis]

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Sorry to hear that. Any chance working things out? Keep precious with you at all times!!!! :-/

 

[Steve Ogden]

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Over 10 years ago, I came home to find all my Nikkor glass & camera bodies shattered on the floor. What a divorce!

Steve

 

[Elvis]

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Ouch!!!

 

[sound-dog]

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Hide the DVX!!! Pretend you sold it to pay the bills!!!

If you have tried all avenues to make it work, sit down NOW and work out the details and get on with it man!!!

I speak from experience...two for me, and just this month one for my son!!! We must be REALLY hard to live with!!!

 

[Jose]

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My advise would be to work together the divorce issues without lawyers or you guys will spend a life savings on the lawyers.
Sorry to hear that. :-[

 

[Taylor Moore]

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Yes, sorry to hear that; been down that road and it is challenging.
Truely do not get lawyers involved, as it will only cost you and the ex money that could be better used in other ways ( like rebuilding your seperate lives).

Also what is best for the kids, and how it is explained to the kids is paramount...my ex and I explained to our children that we were better friends than Husband and wife. We had always kept a pact to be respectful about the other to the children, so that the children aren't drawn in as a line of defence.

 

[shAi]

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hey Opp. hold on... wish you as less pain as possible.. eventually it's all for the best.. you'll make some good films about it

 

[J.R. Hudson]

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What doesn't kill you only means you'll be around later for revenge.

Hang in there 'Opp'. It aint no thing'.

 

[Neil Rowe]

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.. hey, be strong man. i know we dont really know eachother, but my heart goes out to you. take care.

 

[Beat Takeshi]

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Thanks for the support everyone. I thought we had to smooth until now. All of a sudden she wants everything and we have been apart for a long time. Im trying to start writing about this but my juices are drained. When I try to sleep every terrible scenario runs through my head and the next thing I know the alarm goes off and I have to get up. I dont drink or smoke so the only thing right now giving me a mindless release is some unreal tourmament 2004 but with this headache from the tension I can only do that for about an hour. As far as writing... I think I want to start with when it all started and have been thinking about how to open it but this big wall has been sitting right in the middle of my road to sanity and I havnt figured out how to scale it.
I was even going to start it..once apon a time...just to get something down.