Break Ups & Mid life Disasters

October Black

October Black

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UPDATE:
It's been two months since I started this thread and I'm feeling much better. To anyone that stumbles upon this post and is having a life crisis, surround yourself with people that care about you and if that doesn't work, reach out on a forum. It helped me and may have saved my life. Take care of yourself.

To everyone that replied to this post, Thank You.
 
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I read your message before you deleted it. If you'd like someone to talk with, feel free to PM me and I can give you my #. I counsel and minister lots of people with all sorts of problems and am happy to help.
 
What do you want to discuss?

I just found out that one of my best friends and on and off lovers committed suicide. Trying to find the words when talking to her 20 year son, who moved out of her place just 6 months ago... and now has no relatives and have to deal with his mother's death... me... emotional roller coaster still...
 
dmitrizigany said:
What do you want to discuss?

I just found out that one of my best friends and on and off lovers committed suicide. Trying to find the words when talking to her 20 year son, who moved out of her place just 6 months ago... and now has no relatives and have to deal with his mother's death... me... emotional roller coaster still...
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Awe man, that's a lot to deal with. Maybe this thread can be a place for a few of us to vent.
 
While it's good to vent in a forum like this, if you are really depressed, you should get help from a professional.
 
Batutta said:
A good philosophy for both feelings, and gas.
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Speaking of GAS (as in Gear Acquisition Syndrome)..

adaptation said:
The DVXuser answer would be : get more gear. It always make you feel better.
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JPNola said:
I have an FD lens that has been with me over 30 years and in all that time has never cheated on me or even nagged me once.
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It seems this thread has taken a humorous turn.
Thanks for the laughs, guys. I actually laughed out loud; first time all day :)
 
^ True, look at Chris Cornell- literally a Rock Star, no, a Rock God. Suffered from depression, hung himself. I've lost 2 to suicide also.
There's sad, and there's depression. If you think it's the latter, seek help. Whether it's to "sort it out", just vent, or serious treatment, it's worth it.
They can help you figure it out. Because sometimes, you can't.

As far as the American way, Freud was Austrian.

Good luck my friend!
 
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