BF in Vegas, should I be worried?

Alexa

Alexa

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well, i'll probably regret this post, but I have to ask...

i thought someone's wife was going to go and chaperone, but she ended up getting sick, so now it is three ex-frat guys, reunited..2 single, one married 1 year.
 
Oh boy, what happens in Vegas stay's in Vegas....but if you contracted STD's, that's stuck with you for life!

I don't really know what to say but I would be more worried if he was caught at Thunder Down Under...
 
Trust him. Anyway, a woman can always tell when her man has strayed. Girls have a sixth sense about that. You'd know instantly after seeing him again. You'll be fine.
 
Worrying in itself won't do you a scrap of good. I hate to call this on one of my own (another guy), but I'd be checking in on that boy as often as you get a chance to. Then again, maybe he's not like me.

Shoot, I could go to Vegas with several of the guys from Church, and I can GURANTEE that if my wife weren't with me I'd be saying/doing things I probably wouldn't want repeated. Like cutting a little boy loose in a firing range with a gun, and asking him not to shoot it while he's unsupervised (no, I'm not trying to make a connection between a little boy's gun and .... nevermind).

You know what, Pooh, forget everthing I just said. He's probably a saint, unlike many of us.
 
Ha..You start off by saying don't worry, proceed to make her worry, and end with what me worry? :cheesy:

Pooh, just give your boy a gentle reminder. Set some guidelines. Drinking and stripclubs are fine, but the rule is look don't touch, no lapdances, etc. :evil:
 
LOL, yeah, I did kind of hit all over the spectrum there. Bottom line, worrying WON'T do any good, but setting those guide lines can.

Not sure giving free reign on the drinking/stripclubs is okay, though ... it's like saying "okay, you can put your legs in the water, but don't jump in".
 
Everything will be fine as long as he doesn't conform to the old saying of "go on vacation, leave on probation"
 
I think Kovarova gave you the best piece of advice.

Personally, I think the idea of 'checking in on him as often as you can' is probably a very bad idea. No one wants to be controlled through guilt, and that does nothing but set the stage for resentment. If you make someone feel smothered, then they will struggle to get a taste of 'freedom'

Personally, I would have a frank talk with him before he goes. Just like Issac recommended, I would tell him that you don't have a problem with X or Y, but that Z is obviously not cool. If it's discussed openly before hand he'll at least know that you're worried, and he won't ever be able to say "How was I supposed to know you'd get mad if I did (blank)"

Just make sure that you talk to him...no guy likes feeling like he's being nagged.

What is the occassion of the trip?
Just curious.
 
Has he ever given you a reason not trust him? If not, don't worry. If so, then Luis gave some good advice.

Don't worry.
 
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