Yes, in most situations, that is the case, but when shooting documentary, for example, I might initially think i want to brighten things up for a night or blue hour situation, but there might be lights in the background that’ll go nuclear at iso12,800, so occasionally i’ll stick to lower iso and work a more moody backlight exposure. If the project demands bright evenly lit subjects, then yeah, iso12,800 and frame out the lights if possible.Where is the problem? You shoot at 800 unless there isn't enough light to get the exposure you need, then you switch to 12,800. Nothing more needs to be known. It seems you are really trying hard to overthink stuff and make things more complicated then they really are.
it’s not complicated, but it is a decision. So, things need to be known.