Ted Spencer
Veteran
It is interesting how the absolute majority of films discussed at this website are violent, big commercial movies. Every now and again you'll get a foreign film or a comedy or even non-genre defined film, but they area few and far between.
Many of us wish it otherwise, but it's a demonstrable fact that violent content makes entertaining movies/stories, just as motorists will slow to rubberneck an accident scene (I bet you do too), but zoom right by the picnic grounds.
It's anthropological, fundamentally. And it's taught in every acting and screenwriting book and class. "Extraordinary circumstances" is what it's called there, and just like the driving analogy, without conflict, you don't have either an interesting character or story. There's nothing more extraordinary than a life-or-death struggle, either literally or figuratively, and so there it is in most successful films. Not to mention other works, like most of Shakespeare, for example.
Then there's the financial side. Movies cost an awful lot to make, and need to make a lot for their creators to survive. Bigger excitement = bigger box office.
If you want pure feel-good with absolutely no conflict, your entertainment dollar might be better spent on music. The rules are different there. More often than not, it's love that binds that medium together.